Mark Davies, my ex-husband, passed away due to emphysema complicated by COVID.  As his daughter Jennifer put it, “The doctor asked Sarah and me what Dad enjoyed, and basically it was everything in life that was “bad” for you, but all those things that can also make life a lot of fun.  In honor of that spirit, I encourage everyone to celebrate his life by finding one sinfully wonderful thing to do today, eat the double cheeseburger, have the spam, smoke the cigarette, sip a shot or two of bourbon, irritate the neighbors with loud music, but most of all be kind to each other.”